“True heroism, so far as it is
possible to modern man, is displayed in inconspicuous activity, in
the work that does not bring fame. It lacks the confirmation of
public approval, even though well adapted to the needs of daily
life... He rejects the lure of doing what all can do and what
everyone will approve, and he is unperturbed by resistance and
disapproval. With steady gait, he follows his chosen path. This path
is a lonely one, for the dread of calumny and of arrogant disapproval
compels most persons to do what will please the crowd. Few are equal
to the task of following their own bent without obstinancy and
without weakness, of turning a deaf ear to the illusions of the
moment, of maintaining without fatigue or discouragement a resolution
once formed.” - Karl Jaspers
Good evening, and thanks for tuning in
to the second installment of our 'Foundations' series. We're
currently in the process of laying down bricks and beams, a sturdy
substructure in which to anchor your training and rise to
achievement. Before I send you off packing with a simple formula,
like “Train 5x5 high intensity sets at about 60-80% of your 1RM”
or “Avoid vegetable oils, soy, and processed sugars, eat plenty of
protein, animal fats, and rich plant fats like avocado, flax,
coconut”, and thereby exclude and neglect the opposite side of the
coin, I'm going to debate with you, harangue with you, laugh and cry
and yell at you, until by sheer exertion you understand not only the
'how' but the 'why' of our approach. We're gonna take it as axiomatic
in this series that every training regimen and life plan should be
firmly rooted in a 'why'. Why? Bear with me; we'll get to that.
"Why?" 'Tis a question of Gods and Madmen!
You ever wonder why so many New Years
resolutions go unfulfilled? Why all the overweight ladies at your
office bicker over diet advice and update daily their progress (or
lack thereof) in the fat-shedding department? Why countless kids are
packed into gyms, trying to look Jersey Shore (or 50 Cent) and fail,
despite the ridiculous amount of sweat they put into it? We mentioned
some aspects briefly in the previous article; things like the 6-week
motivation timer, cognitive dissonance, etc. But, oh, the rabbit hole
goes deeper. A lot deeper, Alice. We can safely divide the prominent
and persistent failure of fitness plans into two categories: 1)
mechanism, i.e. lack of understanding of your instrument (in this
case, your body), and 2) motivation, i.e. lack of a plan and/or lack
of a goal. We'll cover mechanism and the outlooks that are vital both
for designing and refining an effective regimen in the next
instalment. Today, our topic is motivation. Why do we need to beat
this horse? You'd think that people are just gifted with drive and
consistency by virtue of their biological nature, right? Well, no. Or
rather, people are born with a variety of awesome physiological and
metabolic subroutines that will kick in and drag them towards their
goals, if properly triggered: but you didn't think you'd just Hulk
out from vague desire and a lot of work without structure, did you?
Back to the drawing board...
You need clearly defined goals. This
may sound like a no-brainer, but believe me, it's not. In all the
folks I've trained and trained with, you often see some pretty decent
short-term performance-based goals, like “I'm gonna get to the
point I can do 500 pushups a day across 10 sets” or “I'm gonna
work on my submissions from guard so I can win the fight next month”
or “I'm gonna perfect my power clean form or my heel kick.” And
those are great. Guys (or girls) that make those sorts of goals and
possess even a moderate bit of stick-to-itiveness often achieve them
surprisingly quickly. The problem is that those goals are often
accompanied by unstated expectations, or vague ideas, like getting
'ripped' or 'jacked', or 'being a complete fighter'. And that's not
realistic. Maybe if you're fighting a guy whose bread and butter is
collegiate wrestling and ground-and-pound and you already know you're
more than a match for him standing up, then working on your guard
submissions and takedown defense would, in fact, give you a hell of a
chance of winning. But next time, when you go to fight a consummate
boxer or a judo/jujtisu champ, you might not be in such an
advantageous position. Why? Because you didn't focus on your goal
hierarchy.
What do I mean by that? I mean that your long-term goal was not clearly defined, and further, was merely an implicit assumption, i.e. 'be a great fighter.' Therefore your effective and realistic short-term goal of bettering one or two aspects of your game occurred in a vacuum, instead of being a stepping stone, or a node interlinked with your other skills that leads upward through the Mortal Kombat skill pillar to greatness. What you need is a road map. But what good is a map, or directions, or even GPS, if you don't have a destination? If I start driving right now, intending to go to Vegas, it'll take me a few days. But let's say I start driving without any clear idea of where I'm going; any thoughts on when I'll wind up at Caesar's Palace? Mathematically, if you assume all directions are equal, and say that some unit (let's say a mile) is the point of my decision, then instead of the 2,273 separate mile decisions I have to travel in a more-or-less straight line to the craps tables, I have to travel 5,166,529 mile decisions(the square of the distance) to reach Vegas if I'm going the random walk route (look up Brownian Motion if you're interested).
What do I mean by that? I mean that your long-term goal was not clearly defined, and further, was merely an implicit assumption, i.e. 'be a great fighter.' Therefore your effective and realistic short-term goal of bettering one or two aspects of your game occurred in a vacuum, instead of being a stepping stone, or a node interlinked with your other skills that leads upward through the Mortal Kombat skill pillar to greatness. What you need is a road map. But what good is a map, or directions, or even GPS, if you don't have a destination? If I start driving right now, intending to go to Vegas, it'll take me a few days. But let's say I start driving without any clear idea of where I'm going; any thoughts on when I'll wind up at Caesar's Palace? Mathematically, if you assume all directions are equal, and say that some unit (let's say a mile) is the point of my decision, then instead of the 2,273 separate mile decisions I have to travel in a more-or-less straight line to the craps tables, I have to travel 5,166,529 mile decisions(the square of the distance) to reach Vegas if I'm going the random walk route (look up Brownian Motion if you're interested).
It's best not to leave road trips to chance.
What
does this mean? It means that you've gotta figure out where you're
going before you start out! Make your goals as clear and realistic
as possible (Note when I say realistic, I mean what YOU think is
possible, not what other people think is practical). Instead of
saying “I want to be buff” say “I want an x inch chest, z
percent body fat, the ability to bench or squat y” or “I want to
win Mr. Universe”, instead of saying “I want to be a complete
fighter”, make it specific, say, “I want to dominate through
counterpunching and capitalizing on the mistakes of others, utilizing
a defensive punching style, throws and sweeps, tactical head movement
and sick takedown/clinch defense in order to dominate stronger, more
physical opponents”. Make it a strategy. Visualize yourself where
you want to be. Don't just think of success, think of the conditions
that go along with success, what you will need to do to
achieve it, and why. Ask
yourself, “Why do I want this? What's in it for me?” Some of you
won't be able to answer. For many, that's because the goals you dream
of are only yours by proxy: what you really want is respect,
acknowledgement, money, girls, social status, whatever. If that's the
case, you need to go back to the drawing board, but DON'T stop
training: rather, design your training as an exploration of yourself,
as a gradual realization of what you are and what you can become,
rather than as an end in itself. We'll discuss why in a moment. For
others, probably very few, you won't be able to answer that question
of why you want to be a fighter, or a pianist, or a writer, because
it's such a primary awareness, an unreflected-upon part of your
being. You're a mass of potentials, but you know that being capable
of winning the belt or writing the great American novel isn't enough,
you have to bring it into reality. That's top dog mentality; it's the
reason why champions win, and top salespeople perform, and writers
sell out print runs, and it's often mistaken for that great
psychological crutch, talent. People think there's some sort of gap
between them and the philosophers, or them and the celebrities, or
them and the elite athletes. They chalk up the limbo of their lives
to their lack of 'talent' or 'opportunity' instead of their lack of
'actually doing shit'. The only time talent matters, in terms of
genetics, is when you're already on that elite level with the
Anderson Silvas and the Usain Bolts. I'm not going to say a mere few
thousand hours of well-planned work is going to make you the greatest
boxer/chess player/actor that ever lived, but I am going to say that
you can succeed in any one of those endeavors, despite average
intelligence, average physicality, or average charisma, sheerly by a
crapload of quality practice.
Iterate; reiterate; succeed.
What
determines what we usually call 'talent' is your telos,
your raison d'etre.
Did I lose you? Don't worry. Telos is an Aristotelian word that just
means 'end', as in purpose or goal. Raison d'etre is French
philosophy talk for 'the meaning of life' or 'the purpose of
existence'. When you unclutter your mind, dump out all the pride and
envy and need for approval and other social nonsense, what remains?
If you had a bajillion dollars and you could do anything for the rest
of your life, what would you do? That's your talent. A lot of people
don't like that question; they find it disingenuous. The fact of the
world we live in is that success is due to what you can provide to
the life-order of fulfilling human needs (i.e. the economy), in terms
of quantity and quality, according to supply and demand. How much do
people want what you have to offer, and how rare is it that someone
is offering it? Thus is your value determined. Hence why Floyd
Mayweather is the most highly paid athlete in the world, why NFL
stars make more than teachers, why hedge fund managers make more than
farmers, and other blank facts of ''social reality' or social injustice', depending on who you talk to. Hence also why
PhDs in Medieval History or Victorian Literature are eking out paltry existences on welfare, and young bright History or Sociology majors
and even Lawyers are fussing about at Zucotti Park. The truth is,
despite the fact that this teacher may have a God-given calling, the
kids love her, and her curriculum impacts lives, she's only gonna get
paid as much as any other teacher with the same seniority. And the
kid with a very expensive spurious degree can't find a job, because,
well, he's not qualified for anything, at least not anything that
people value. So you can't always trust the valuations of society at
large or of your small social group, for that matter, but it's the
best system we have; how do you judge, other than on appearances?
That's how human desire and human needs work. But, thankfully,
there's another dimension to this whole situation: externalities
aren't everything. I'll give you an example. Some researchers took
some elementary children, and divided them into two groups. The first
group got to play with markers; the second group got rewarded with a
toy for playing with markers. A week later they brought them back,
and had both groups free-play with markers a second time, with no
rewards. And guess what? The second group, the rewarded group,
quickly lost interest. They didn't view drawing as a fun activity,
because they now saw it only as instrumental to an extrinsic reward.
The instrumentality had cheapened it.
Pretty
crazy, right? But when you think about it, it makes perfect sense.
Let's take a lady who's danced for her whole life, loves dancing,
dances because it 'makes her feel free'. She decides to open a
studio, and finds that after several months of teaching dance for
money, she hates her job as much as she had hated her day job at the
bank. The intrinsic reward has been eclipsed by the extrinsic and the
activity is cheapened. How about artsy kids who end up in a
high-performance art school environment, and begin to lose their
emotional touch, hate their work, and eventually drop out? It's
disgustingly common in art and literature studies. How about taking a
walk? If you're taking a stroll, with the intrinsic purpose of
walking, it's highly enjoyable, even on a frosty day, hearing the
snow crunch and taking in the sights. But that same route taken
instrumentally, in order to get somewhere, and you'll be cursing
Heaven and wishing for a bus. Why is this the case? Because in the
first scenario, walking is it's own purpose, it's fun all by itself.
In the second, getting somewhere
is the purpose. Likewise, if you want to make money, you don't care
how you do it (within reason); money is the purpose, not enjoying
your daily drudge.
Origami is it's own reward.
So
how do we apply this to our fitness regimen, or any other plan?
Remember Alec Baldwin's speech in Glengarry Glen Ross? “We're gonna
add a little something to the Sales competition this month. First
prize, as you all know, is a Cadillac Eldorado. Second prize is a set
of steak knives. Third prize is, you're fired.” Notice this: the
top seller doesn't need a Cadillac to motivate him; that's why he's
the top seller. He's the best because he lives, breathes, eats,
thinks, and dreams of being the best. The Cadillac is there to
provoke the other salesmen, to inspire them through jealousy. So, my
friends, you've got to find your telos, you're raison d'etre. Put the
millionaire question another way: if you had to work at McDonald's
the rest of your life, what would you wake up early, and stay up
late, doing and perfecting? Would you write books? Would you train
your body? Maybe both? Good. Think about it long, long and hard. Find
your goal, elucidate it, make it as clear as ice sculpture, as clear
as crystal, as clear as the purest glass. Make it specific,
strategic, realistic, but dare to go beyond the normal understanding
of Man:
“The only limitation on human potential is the human mind.”
“The only limitation on human potential is the human mind.”
- Dave Tate
"Because your own strength is unequal to the task, do not assume that it is beyond the powers of man; but if anything is within the powers and province of man, believe that it is within your own compass also."
- Marcus Aurelius
So,
are we getting there? Forget about money, forget about fame, forget
about chicks (or guys), forget about spiting your enemies, as fun as
it is. You're just blurring the picture. Let your plan follow your
goal; don't lose the race from lack of a finish line. Remember, too,
that what you're doing is creating yourself. Just like a sculptor
takes a block of marble and cuts away the extraneous parts to reveal
the statue within, you're taking your only possession, your threefold
unity, body, mind, and spirit, as your instrument and your marble;
taking a welter of partial drives and latent strengths and half-baked
possibilities and cutting them, shaping them, pulling them taut, to
create a God, a Superman. You're forging your identity, not just your
persona; you're becoming the true fulfillment of your being, not just
a mask you wear to bring home the bacon. If you lie, you will fail;
Nature doesn't tolerate duplicity and deception. In the existential
world, ruthless self-honesty is a prerequisite. If you're not there,
don't fake it; don't break your form or suck in your stomach or
invent an explanation, drop the weight down and hit it patiently,
steadily, work in the darkness so that you can earn the light. Don't
worry about making a million dollars (unless that is your goal), or
being vindicated to all those folks who called you meathead, loser,
nerd, self-absorbed, said your head was in the clouds; don't worry
about recognition or female attention. Even when you're in an air
conditioned gym training on cutting-edge equipment, remember you
carry the spiritual desert around inside you. Another thing Aurelius
said, when they wanted him to become emperor of Rome, “All I want
is the philosopher's toga and the philosopher's wooden bed.” Cut
away the unnecessary, and you'll be left with your own perfection.
But don't measure yourself against your ultimate goal; as you
progress, the clearer your vision will get, and the more distinctly
your flaws will appear to your reflection. Focus on meeting your
short-term goals, and then turning those into intermediate goals;
focus on one step at a time, one rep at a time, and before you know
it you'll be a Master.
Make your ancestors proud.
It's
time to wrap up by talking about your goal hierarchy. Once you have
your long-term goal, your ultimate end, figure out what areas you
need to build on, what steps you need to take to get there. Those are
your intermediate goals. Then, based on those, make your short-term
goals for a time frame of a few days to a few weeks, to avoid
becoming fatigued or overwhelmed; when you're at work, you wait and
watch for the next break, not for the end of the day, nor, God
forbid, for the end of your employment, or you'd quickly drown in a
situation that seems too big to handle. Break it up into manageable
pieces, that lead from one stepping-stone to the next, and you can
achieve big things. More advice: Keep a journal. Judge your progress.
Digest what you've learned in nightly journalling and contemplation;
hold on to the ground you've gained. It's amazing how such a simple
feedback mechanism can have such a drastic impact on your results,
simply through accountability.
One
thing we haven't talked about is faith. I know that's a four-letter
word nowadays, but you won't get anywhere without it. No, I'm not
asking you to accept Lord Jesus as your personal savior or take
refuge in the Three Jewels. I am asking you to believe and to
dedicate yourself, because no one's going to believe for you. There
isn't any easy advice on how to have faith: the first step is to do
what we talked about above, and formulate a clear goal, a clear idea
of yourself. Beyond that, your mind will constantly be bombarded by
doubts internally, and criticism externally: people don't want you to
succeed, for reasons of their own, and your mind probably doesn't
want to admit that you're capable of excelling simply through
practice, and lose the crutch it's been using to justify mediocrity
for decades. Address your doubts head on, as they come up; you'll
gain nothing by pushing them down and denying them. Let them have
their place, acknowledge them, reiterate your plan, and let them go.
Trust that the cream always rises, every dog has his day, and if fame
and fortune doesn't attend your breaking of the barriers to human
excellence, then fuck it: you'll still be everything you've become,
and if humanity doesn't want to stand up and recognize it, it's their
loss. Working out your potential will make the best you can be, and
being the best is its own reward.
Regards,
Donny
Regards,
Donny